Sunday, January 20, 2008

Workplace relations

What is up with the workplace relationships at my work? Seriously, I think some people need to draw the line between being professional and just reckless flirting.

I'm not the one to judge. What u do in your own time and with whoever is nothing to do with me. But if I have to hear about it every morning, then there's where the problems start. I'm about to have a good day- I don't want to know about horny messages exchanged at night. I don't want to know about a relationship that I don't consider as professional anyway. I take back what I said before, I judge people. And sometimes when I like someone, I think that I need to know less of them because the more I know, the less I like.

Reason for this gripe. Girl at work, H - obssessed with guy at work, D. H had a boyfriend for about two weeks but that didn't stop her from flirting with D. See H on the bus every morning and she tells me all these messages the two od them exchanged. Do I need to know about it? Seriously.

It makes me look at D in a different way. And I don't like making judgments on people through hearsay. If that makes any sense.

And the best part is that I'm hearing that another person in the office has a crush on D and seriously I don't see the attraction. It could be the lack of males in the department and the number of single and desperate women. And what repulses me more is not his looks, but the fact that he's just a gutless little shit, making suggestive comments on messages burt never actually following it through. Once again its all hearsay.

As for me, I would not consider having a workplace relationship at this stage anmd especially not with D. But you know, the laws of attraction cannot be explained and til then, I'll be happy just observing, judgong and writing my blogs.

End rant.

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